Lesbians who have never kissed/dated/had sex with a girl are still lesbians
Also lesbians who have kissed/dated/had sex with men in the past are still lesbians
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ive recently found out that in the 80s lesbians who were more interested in cuddles and kisses rather than sex were called bambi lesbians
it’s such a cute thing omg let’s bring this term back
the love ace lesbians found for this post warms my heart mind body and soul and spirit
reblog to make an ace lesbian feel happy
Sometimes I honestly have to laugh at the ridiculousness of trying to mock or cheapen lesbian sexuality by calling us “vagina fetishists”. It only works as an insult if you are assuming that the person isn’t having sex with other lesbians and bi women.
Can you imagine, like, an actual lesbian being sad or scared that another woman was excited about her vulva? Can you THINK of a scenario where an actual lesbian would be horrified that another woman found her vulva sexy and beautiful? Or was disgusted that another woman would fantasize about touching her sexually?
To assume that being aroused by another woman’s sex characteristics is somehow dirty is really, really telling when it comes to how homophobic these little weasels are.
Like, if I’m in a relationship with someone I’d assume our vulvas are on pretty good terms
For the lesbians who flunked out of college, for the lesbians who flunked out of high school. For the lesbians who can’t hold a job, who don’t have a steady income. For the lesbians who were kicked out, whether it’s because they’re a lesbian or something else. For the lesbians who have trouble making and keeping friends, for the lesbians with bad attitudes and the lesbians who pick too many fights. For the lesbians with eating disorders, for the lesbians who self harm. For the lesbians struggling with addiction and mental illness, the lesbians with disabilities and deformities, whether they were born with them or got them sometime later in life. For the lesbians with dyslexia, for lesbians who are blind, deaf, mute, or any combination of the three.
For all the lesbians who feel like failures, whose family and friends have made them feel like failures, whose communities have told them they are failures.
You aren’t a mistake. You aren’t a failure, and you aren’t wrong. You haven’t bean dealt an easy lot in life, and anybody who tries to make you feel ashamed for what you have or haven’t accomplished is an ass who doesn’t understand your struggle. You are worth love and you deserve to be and feel safe. You are so strong for dealing with all of what life is throwing at you, whether you feel like it’s your fault you have these struggles or not. You are not worthless, you are not a mistake, and you are so valuable and so lovely <3
i’m so here for the lesbians that didn’t always know.
lesbians that thought they were straight, bi, pan, aroace – anything but a lesbian.
lesbians struggling to accept that you can be a girl and like girls.
lesbians struggling to accept they like girls and only girls.
lesbians that knew on some level that they didn’t like guys but never clued into what that meant.
lesbians who thought that because they didn’t like boys they didn’t like anyone.
lesbians who can’t recognize when they’re attracted to women.
lesbians who repressed their attraction and are only now realizing and embracing their lesbianism.
lesbians who feel alienated from other lesbians and wlw because they’ve never had a crush on another girl.
lesbians who feel like they can’t be lesbians
For the lesbians who don’t want to be lesbians. For the lesbians who desperately try to force themselves to be attracted to men, for the lesbians who hate that they are lesbians.
You aren’t gross, you aren’t dirty, and you deserve happiness. You might struggle with it now, but you’ll get there someday. You might not love it now. You might hate it. But you still have a wonderful future ahead of you filled with joy and happiness.
You aren’t a bad lesbian for having these feelings. You are still valid and lovable and worth it. You are still good.
You will make it. You will be okay.
if you date me we will have:
morning sex
afternoon sex
dinner sex
after meal sex
i made pancakes sex
good morning sex
shower sex
bored sex
make up sex
break up sex
monday sex
tuesday sex
wednesday sex
thursday sex
friday sex
saturday sex
sunday sex
there is nothing on tv sex
i love you sex
Not all lesbians are thin white girls who wear Calvin Klein underwear and go camping every weekend. Lesbians are brown girls in salwar kameezes and bindis and black girls with dreadlocks and afros and Muslim girls in hijabs and Jewish girls in tznius, lesbians are fat girls and 5X+ girls and girls with big bones and girls who are 6 feet tall, lesbians are poor girls on welfare and girls getting food stamps and homeless girls and girls working multiple minimum wage jobs, lesbians are girls with depression and anxiety and girls with personality disorders and psychosis and girls in the hospital and girls who are suicidal, lesbians are girls with disabilities and girls in wheelchairs and girls with chronic pain and girls who are blind and deaf and girls who are in recovery and girls who can’t recover, lesbians are girls who are 5 years old and girls who are 85 years old and girls who have known their whole life and girls who just found out, lesbians are girls from literally all walks of life and all cultures and all religions and our stories are so unique and so vast and to reduce us to only a small group of girls who most of us aren’t is disingenuous of who we all are as a whole.
This though.
Not all lesbians are thin white girls who wear Calvin Klein underwear and go camping every weekend. Lesbians are brown girls in salwar kameezes and bindis and black girls with dreadlocks and afros and Muslim girls in hijabs and Jewish girls in tznius, lesbians are fat girls and 5X+ girls and girls with big bones and girls who are 6 feet tall, lesbians are poor girls on welfare and girls getting food stamps and homeless girls and girls working multiple minimum wage jobs, lesbians are girls with depression and anxiety and girls with personality disorders and psychosis and girls in the hospital and girls who are suicidal, lesbians are girls with disabilities and girls in wheelchairs and girls with chronic pain and girls who are blind and deaf and girls who are in recovery and girls who can’t recover, lesbians are girls who are 5 years old and girls who are 85 years old and girls who have known their whole life and girls who just found out, lesbians are girls from literally all walks of life and all cultures and all religions and our stories are so unique and so vast and to reduce us to only a small group of girls who most of us aren’t is disingenuous of who we all are as a whole.
@ lesbians who used to ID as bi: you’re good and you’re not reinforcing any biphobic ideologies about bi people “finally choosing a side” or “really just being gay”
@ bi girls who use to ID as lesbians: you’re good and you’re not reinforcing any lesbophobic stereotypes about lesbians “being closed-minded” or “actually being attracted to men”
Figuring yourself out is incredibly difficult and learning new things about yourself and your identity are never a bad thing. I’m proud of you for your journey and your self-discoveries, and I want you to know that you are a good person who deserves love, acceptance, and happiness
soeasyintoyourembrace